Things didn't exactly go smoothly from the beginning. My saint of a brother Matthew can attest to that. Getting here from California was a bit of a chore to say the least. I had already driven Ian down here to live with his Dad while I stayed in San Diego and looked for jobs. I found one quickly, thankfully, but then I faced the task of packing and moving by myself. Lots of wonderful people helped me on my way, and I finally got to moving day. Matthew flew in the night before. The elders quorum showed up in force to help pack the truck. First snag--the rental truck wasn't big enough. We had to go back and get a bigger truck, it ended up being much bigger. But, we finally got everything packed and two wonderful friends stayed up till wee in the morning helping me finish up. They even scattered rose petals around my truck as they left. Oh how I miss them.

(It did not look this happy and organized)
We left early (well, sort of early) the next morning. Matthew drove the rental truck and I drove our Chevy truck with two whining cats in tow. At first things weren't so bad, then--second snag. The rental truck starting emitting dark smoke somewhere in the middle of Arizona (a bad sign) and Matthew pulled over. Long story short, the truck was a no go. We had to call for a tow. Meanwhile, pulled over on the side of the road in the Arizona desert, my poor cats were really not looking so good. I tried to leave the truck on with the AC, but then the truck started to over heat. I was kind of starting to freak out (in a calm way of course) and didn't know what to do. Matthew made the executive decision. I kept going while he waited for the tow truck (for a very long time). So to make a long story even shorter, they ended up having to move our stuff to a different truck and Matthew ended up driving all night long after the swap. We kept going, but in the end we took 3 days instead of two to get to Dallas. Oh I owe my brother big time. As soon as we got to Dallas, I drove him to the airport so he could head off to work. Thank you, Matthew, more than I can say.
(I thought I had pictures on the road, but they're on my cell phone, so sorry.)
Settling in to our new apartment has taken me forever, but I like our new place. It's smaller, so storage solutions have become increasingly creative (found one up high for the cats). It's nice and cozy though and we have a great view out back. One downside is the electric stove. I'm so used to a gas stove I struggle with that one. I've had to air out the apartment at least three times so far cooking dinner. Live and learn--eventually. (Pictures to come, when it's just a little cleaner.)
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Anyway, I'm kind of back down at the bottom of the totem pole and have to work my way back up again. I have to cover at two different hospitals in the same health system to be able to get hours and I have to work every weekend. Blah! I have to assert myself all over again and prove that I really do know what I'm doing. I have felt so incredibly uncomfortable. I suppose that's when growth happens. Sigh.
On a side note, we can wear scrubbs to work here. I've never had that option before. We have to wear a certain color to designate that we are dietitians. Of course, the two hospitals I cover require different colors for their dietitians. I just know I'm going to get mixed up and show up in the wrong color one of these days. I HATE shopping, so the scrubs thing works out well for me I think. I will say it feels weird to look down and see you are wearing turquoise pants to work, but oh well. I felt so energetic the first time I wore them. Wearing pajama bottoms and running shoes at work made me feel like I should be super speedy or do lun
(I was going for the super hero look, but I think I just look like something smells really bad.)
Things I've noticed so far about Dallas:
-my hair doesn't like it here
-drivers are terrible, really terrible
-pedestrians don't wait for lights
-Greenville (a road) is pronounced "Greenvull"
-Cowboy's jerseys are available with ruffles and sequins
Also, in a two to three block radius of our place there must be at least 5-6 liquor stores and several stores called Condoms to Go and my personal favorite (of store names that is), Condom Sense. On the up side, two, count them two Targets within 5 minutes. Yee haw!
Well that's all for now. I know it's November again, but I really am going to post more now. More to come as I learn about Dallas!
My fellow young women leaders in San Diego felt it was only fitting to send me to Texas with a proper Texas Do. We didn't have a Bump-it so we had to make do with a toilet paper roll. Phew! Now I'll fit in!
13 comments:
Wow. You really do owe Matthew BIG. But that's what family is all about: holding things over each other's heads for years and years...I mean, love. Glad you made it, and I hope things go great for you both.
Oh, sweet cousin, I'm so happy to see that you've posted again! I linked to your blog through Jessica's blog and I've just been waiting and waiting. :-) OK, a few pointers about hair in Texas. Just know that for the first few weeks, it will always look bad. But once you get used to the humidity and heat a little, things will settle down and your hair will return to (mostly) normal. Good hair product is the key to it all! (But please, do NOT resort to Bump its.) Good luck in Texas! Look forward to reading more soon.
We've missed you! Just this week Q was asking what you were up to and I told him I thought your blog had been kicked off my reader because I hadn't heard anything in so long.
Wish we could have been there to help out with the move. Glad you're getting settled and I hope you're serious about posting more than once a year!
YEEHAW! Once you get past the initial shock of how Texans think they are so awesome they want to secede from the union, you'll love it. Embrace the sequins and the ruffles...I love the big hair send off!! Texas is such a great place, you will love it.
I love the scrubs...I'm afraid I would just want to curl up and fall asleep in them.
Good luck, I can't wait to hear more!!
(I've got several friends in the Dallas area, if anyone approaches you because they think you are me, tell them Hello twin cousin.)
Oh..seeing pictures of you made me cry. you are much too far away. Why can't we live close? I need my sis. Love you!
What a trip! Sorry it's been so rough. But I think you are lucky to get to wear scrubs to work!
Wow! So happy to hear from you! I think about you and Ian and feel quite certain that I haven't seen you in years and years. You are fabulous...fabulous looking, fabulously patient, fabulously talented, and an overall fabulous woman.
But yeah, you do owe your brother big. Maybe a nice pony for Christmas? Keep writing...
Oh, and all I can say about Texas was it was like going to a foreign country. Very nice people, lots to love once you get the feel of it but I never got used to the cowboy stuff with sequins or the velour sweatsuits with matching metallic shoes.
OK you just recomfirmed my feelings that moving is a major pain. Glad you made it to Texas ok though and it is so good to see you in your blog. Miss you
Ha ha! Aquanet? Wow-- I haven't seen that for a while. How great you can wear scrubs-- what would happen if you mixed the top and bottom colors? Sounds like you had quite an adventure getting there-- glad you arrived safely! Thank goodness for fantastic brothers like Matthew, what a great guy. I imagine it won't take long for you to rise up to the top, you are meant to fly!
It is so great to hear from you finally. I have been checking patiently. First off, I can empathize with how much it stinks to move. Been there. Done that. About 18 times. You have the best big brother ever, I have to say. What would we do without brothers and friends? Now I have to put in a good word for Texas. I know. I went kicking and screaming all the way. It took awhile and then I got it. Now I love Texas and all my Texas friends, and the great BBQ, and the friendliness, and the rodeos, and the bluebonnets, and sometimes even the big hair and the sequins...even they don't take it too seriously. Don't like the heat, the humidity, or the fire ants. Best of luck in the job--something tells me it won't be long before you are back on top! Greetings to the student!
I won't comment on that fact that it's been a year since we;ve had an update...not in this hard time you're having.
I will say that WOW. I can't believe what a crappy move you had! That really sounded miserable, especially when you consider how awful the normal packing and cleaning and last minute stuff is. I am feeling for you. And I feel for you being in a new uncomfortable life. When we moved to TX from Boston it was HARD. Those accents can really throw you off. And those condom stores sound like something you'd find in my city--not yours! Don't you wish you could skip ahead to the part where you are settled and comfy and happy? I wish you the very best of transitions (am I too late for that?) and the very best of adjustments, etc. Do you like your ward?
Ditto to Emily I was thinking, man you two look so much a like! I can't believe you're in Texas now either. Once a vacation to cousins a long time ago, now home. Ah.
miss you.
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